You are a successful woman, 40+, in her race against time to become a mother (again). As part of a couple or as a single.
On the outside, everyone sees a power lady who has just about everything her heart desires: a top job, an exciting life, great friends, a nice home,…
But that is in sharp contrast to what you feel on the inside: pain and longing, to have a (next) child .
Whatever stage of your baby journey you are in right now: the emotions and the impact are not easy.
This is what you, as a straightforward 40+ woman, are waiting for: a top-notch guidance tailored to your situation!
Unblock your dilemma en save the most valuable time
- Are you still fully committed to your desire to have a baby? Are you doing it based on the right reasons? Is it still appropriate at your age? Can you have it all, motherhood and your ambitions?
- Are you going to be a single mother? Are you going to keep waiting for a partner? Do you want and can you do it alone, in combination with a busy career?
- Your partner does not (no longer) want a child: do you choose your partner (and any bonus children) or your desire to have a child?
- Are you finally using the eggs you froze or not? It feels like now or never.
- Are you going to take the complex step towards egg and/or sperm donation?
Get back into that positive energy that allows you to receive your desire
- You receive your treatment schedule. Start of the stimulation to hopefully enough of your own eggs or there is a donor or…: the process is really starting right now. Stress!
- The waiting weeks are maddening. You realize that you are not going to repeat this for years to come.
- Your pregnancy test is negative. Your world stops spinning. How much more disappointment can you handle?
- After several failed treatments, your heart sinks. How long will you keep going? How far will you go?
- You lose your baby during pregnancy after all. Heartbreaking. This baby was so precious.
- You feel misunderstood by your social environment, perhaps even blamed for your so- called “unnatural” choices. Sometimes you feel like you’re completely alone in this. How do you cope?
- How do you combine this fertility journey with your challenging job?
Eliminate remaining fears
- During your pregnancy you are constantly afraid that things will still go wrong. This feeling is even stronger if you lost a previous pregnancy. Do you still have confidence in your body?
- You are pregnant through egg and/or sperm donation. Now it is for real. It gives you many moments of panic. Was donor conception the right choice? And anonymity?
- During your entire process of wanting to have a child, you have often suppressed your emotions like trying to keep a ball under water: you feel the repercussions of the entire process.
- You doubt yourself as an ‘older’ mother, possibly also single, with a busy career.
- You have a child through egg and/or sperm donation. How do you ever explain this to him/her? When? Who are you telling it to?
- What if your child wants to look for the egg and/or sperm donor(s) later on? How do you deal with that and what is possible?
This is the essence of this coaching module
Every stage, every story requires a tailored approach. Yet there are two crucial common threads.
The importance of your energy and mindset to fulfill your baby wish
A powerful positive vibe is indispensable to allow your wish to come to you!
In that special vibe…
- your choices about your child wish really feel good, you fully support your story and you no longer feel resistance in your head
- fears, doubts and the urge for control shift into trust and surrender, you dare to listen to your feelings for the first time in a long time
- you see and feel options again and a burden falls off your shoulders
That’s’s why you will be
- digging into and dealing with your different layers of doubts about yourself, motherhood, your (lack of) a relationship, donor conception
- feeling your deep longing for a child and merge with it through a visualization exercise
- looking at your struggle as part of a bigger picture, with its own patterns and injuries: your family system
grieving about your ideal picture and about underlying grief (pregnancy loss, failed fertility treatments, breakup,…) - looking for that path in the overwhelming maze of which feel like “spot on” to you (e.g. what kind of donor (anonymous, open profile, known)? what role do you want to play in the selection of the donor? which fertility centre (domestic or abroad) can you go to based on your values and preferences?)
- broadening your view and, above all, no longer going along with options that do not feel 100% right
- no longer pushing the whole bullshit load of painful emotions surrounding your baby wish under water like a ball but let it float quietly on the surface
The happiness of your future child
Your future child will be the most important thing in your life! Of course you want the very best for this child.How do you ensure that your future child will also be happy with the choices you are making at this moment?
That’s why you will be
- looking at your remaining doubts and sadness and so preventing your child from feeling and carrying this unconsiously
- looking from the point of view of your future child (and maybe other children in your family): how will it be for him or her?
- reflecting on the place of the donor in your future story
- making a plan about if, who, how, when to talk to about this
- reflecting on your child’s possible search for the donor(s): what are the options later on for your child to find the donor(s)- even if the donor was anonymous- and how do you react as a parent?
This is how it works
No indefinite number of sessions, no dozens of ‘masterclasses’, no ‘toolbox’, no complex online learning platform, no long Q&A group sessions…
Nope, a personalized experience, to-the-point, efficient and with eye for the best quality. Because your time and energy are precious, right?
With a deep dive of personal guidance, I help you to get out of the loop of worrying and emotions that hold you in their grip.
It is the most specific and fine-tuned 40+ fertility coaching available on this subject internationally.
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coaching module ’40+ and child wish’
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| 6 in- depth personalised sessions- live or video call+ 1 closing session- onlineWe dive into your process during 6 powerful sessions. We do this over a period of 3 to 6 months, according to what your process needs. Don’t expect dry conversations. I challenge you with pithy reflection questions and coaching tools to by pass you ratio and go to your feelings and subconsiousness. For example an enlightening family constellation. Set of reflection sheets + my personal feedback You receive reflection sheets with in-depth exercises and information that you use in between sessions.I select those sheets very strategically, tailored to what you really need.I analyze your outcome in advance. That way we start each session with a big head start and explore more thorougly.
7/7 Whatsapp-/ E- mail supportI Are you having questions or a difficult moment? Then a short moment of sparring can make the difference. For that reason I am 7/7 available for you (up tot 6 months). Send me a WhatsApp message or e-mail and I will answer you within a day. |
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EXTRA : audio recording visualization exercise This visualization exercise goes to the very core and gives a major shift in your process in just 20 minutes. your possible partner can participate at no extra investment As a couple you choose whether you participate together or alone. The investment is the same.
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Do you want to continue our collaboration after this coaching module? It will be my pleasure to discuss this at that moment.
Feel the power of new perspectives
This is what this coaching module gives you:
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- You always have an expert and sparring partner by your side.
- You save the most valuable time when making vital decisions that your support 100%.
- You see big new perspectives again, you can move on. Emotionally you feel peace, relief.
- If you are in a relationship, tension reduces . If you are single, you can start dating again at your own pace, without having to screen every date as a potential (biological) parent
- You know that you have done everything you can to not miss any opportunities. You prevent doubts from overpowering you later on or regretting that you did not explore this path thoroughly or stayed on it long enough
- Your future child does not have to carry any remaining fears and sorrows for you. If you are fine, your child is fine.
I work with a maximum of 10 women (with or without a partner) at the same time on their greatest soul desire.
The investment for this coaching module ’40+ and desire to have children’ is 2500 euros.
Does this triggers you? Then let’s meet online in a free online match call.