The successes in your life are dwarfed by your greatest desire: a last- chance- baby.

The successes in your life are dwarfed by your greatest desire: a last- chance- baby.

Last- chance- baby?

You take leadership over your life, set various life goals and go for it.
You lack nothing. That’s how the world sees you.

But deep inside you feel it differently, you are searching.
You look back on your life thus far and look ahead to what lies ahead.

Is this life you  really want? Is this who you want to be?

You feel that you are missing something essential in your life.
You want to experience motherhood (again), as a single or as part of a couple.

This is more then a goal. It’s a desire. The greatest. The essence.

Research shows that the more successful you are as a woman,
the more likely you are to have no child(ren) by the time you reach midlife.
Do you allow yourself to break out of this pattern?
Who is going to decide on your children’s wish: you or time?

You realize that this might be your “last chance baby”.

And now me!

You have a great sense of responsibility by nature.
Both privately and professionally you feel responsible, also for what others feel and think.

In that sense, you have already made some sacrifices in your life (for your family/your partner/your (plus) children/your career/…).
But now you feel very clearly: and now me! Time for MY desires!

You are also strong with your head, you can think and analyze well. That has already brought you a lot in your life…but also held back a lot.
You notice that your intuitive side is gradually getting stronger. You want to feel and experience.

Your desire to have children is very present in that inner process!

But, you feel a great sense of urgency, hitting age ceilings:
Your egg suplly is slinking and/or
You already had several failed fertility treatments/ pregnancy losses and/or
You have no partner.

 

You seem to be facing sperm donation and/ or egg donation.

And having a baby feels like a huge emotional and pratical challenge.

The happiness of your future child comes first.

Your great sense of responsibility also emerges in relation to your future child.

The critical, analytical thinker in you asks yourself a lot of questions.
Don’t you cross borders? Aren’t you selfish? Is your child going to blame you later?

You  long for a child, but of course you also want this child to feel completely happy and firmly rooted. This decision feels like a terrifying leap of faith.

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I took the plunge and made an appointment with a fertility clinic.

I kept waiting and waiting to fulfill my childwish. I am single and was wondering if I could handle this, especially in combination wit a busy job with irregular working hours. Moreover, I am strongly inclined to rationalize and to try to get things under control. Therefore I got completely stuck.

Throughout the coaching programma I learned to connect with my emotions and my desire. It got me out of my rational circle of thoughts. It helped met a lot that someone was guiding me in this and dared to ask me ‘hard’ questions,

Step by step, I let go of my inclination to take control. First in small things, but I’ll get there.

I dared to talk to my parents about my childwish and their supporting roll in this. This was a big and crucial step.

At the end of the coaching programme, I took the plunge and contacted a fertility clinic.

I wouldn’t have succeeded yet without the programme.

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